WHY ARE PARENTS GETTING RID OF THEIR KIDS??

I'm on my soap box again. I need some explanation. Why is this right-wing, radical religious group spending MILLIONS of dollars in California (to prevent gay marriage). They need to be spending that money on the straights, who cross state lines to drop their teens off at a "safe-haven" hospital BECAUSE THEY DON'T WANT THEM ANYMORE. Wow! What a country!