ARE GAYS FAIRLY PORTRAYED IN MAINSTREAM MEDIA?

I know I've brought this topic up before but everytime I turn on the radio or TV, my point is confirmed. My point is, gays are still the butt of all jokes. In mainstream media, gays are the joke. In most cases, we allow this (i.e. Bobby Trendy). I've been asking someone to prove me wrong and give me some examples of gays on mainstream TV series, that are not embarrassing. I have yet to get a response.